was staying with the inlaw since my boy arrive to the world
come to think of it, i have been staying here coming to 5 years
sometimes, feel really stress out, in-law would make noise, complaint about my naughty boy, my daughter, though they have help to take care of them since baby
talk to my fren, they told me, a guy stay with inlaw, is better than your wife stay with inlaw.
quite true, as i dun try to argue or quarrel with them, i just kept quiet, bo bian, stay at ppl place, need to see ppl face...
sometimes, i guess it would be better if we have our own home, at least i can watch my motor racing video as i like.
husband & wife are two individuals...most see & agree things together...of course some dun then problems seep in
husband & wife plus in-laws are more than two individuals...it takes a miracle for all to see eye to eye...bad things keep in heart one day all the can of worms will spill out
jz my perception only hor
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mine is quite similar but not the same. my in-law stay wif me, my hse. they were supposed to stay till my bro-in-law got his hse ready but after living wif me for 5 years n they felt that i'm very easy to live with so they decided to stay with me instead.
i think it is good to own a roof for yourself, for your future n retirement. it dont hv to
